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Family · Community Building

Community building thrives in the mundane

Showing up consistently. Small spiritual groups organized by Travis achieved a 23% decline on the UCLA Loneliness Scale after six weeks of sustained interaction. Kevin Koym facilitates community connection by hosting gatherings at the…

Showing up consistently. Small spiritual groups organized by Travis achieved a 23% decline on the UCLA Loneliness Scale after six weeks of sustained interaction (Michael Adam Beck from Passional Church Substack). Kevin Koym facilitates community connection by hosting gatherings at the Austin Chamber of Commerce where leaders meet in functional, beige rooms to discuss local progress (Jessi Roesch from Chaotic Natural). Eric Liu highlights Ash Hanson of PlaceBase Productions, who organizes story circles in rural Minnesota towns to help residents practice civic engagement through shared narrative creation (Wendy MacNaughton from DrawTogether with WendyMac).

Creating shared spaces. Silas Mähner encourages leaders to host Rosary walks and neighborhood barbecues to assimilate others into a virtuous way of living through public witness (Catholic Founders). Michael Morrell points to the New Monastics network, which gathered in 2004 to formalize twelve marks of community life including hospitality to strangers and shared economic resources (Opti-Mystic Ways that Work). The Politics Chicks emphasize that maintaining relationships after an election cycle requires sustained investment rather than relying on one-off turnout operations to build lasting political power.

Practicing civic art. Paul Anleitner gathers storytellers and creators at the Goodmakers Guild for retreats and project incubators at Dialect House to develop films and curricula that re-orient culture toward true stories (Paul Anleitner from Reading the Zeitgeist). Tonika Johnson Lewis launched the Folded Map Project in Chicago to connect residents from different racial and class backgrounds by matching addresses and facilitating direct conversations between neighbors.

Try today · 30 min

Host a six-week series of small, vulnerable check-ins with two neighbors or colleagues using progressively deeper questions.

Start with a simple question about their week before moving to more personal reflections on their goals or challenges.

You need

  • A quiet space
  • A list of three open-ended questions

Steps

  1. Invite two people to meet for thirty minutes each week for six weeks.
  2. Select a consistent, neutral location for your meetings.
  3. Prepare one question that invites vulnerability, such as what is currently weighing on their mind.
  4. Listen without offering immediate solutions or advice.
  5. Rotate the facilitator role each week to ensure equal participation.
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Sources

  1. Michael Adam Beck, Passional Church Substack ✎ Written by a personThis survey data confirms that small, vulnerable spiritual groups significantly reduce loneliness scores compared to traditional large-scale attendance models.

  2. Jessi Roesch, Chaotic Natural ✎ Written by a personKevin Koym demonstrates how community leaders can utilize mundane, functional spaces to foster meaningful connection and local progress.

  3. Wendy MacNaughton, DrawTogether with WendyMac ✎ Written by a personEric Liu and Ash Hanson provide examples of how art and story circles build civic muscles by forcing participants to notice nuance.

  4. Catholic FoundersSilas Mähner outlines specific, low-barrier social actions like neighborhood walks and barbecues that serve as a witness to a community-focused life.

  5. Opti-Mystic Ways that WorkMichael Morrell details the historical marks of the New Monastic movement, emphasizing hospitality and shared resources as the foundation for community.

  6. Paul Anleitner, Reading the Zeitgeist ✎ Written by a personPaul Anleitner describes the Goodmakers Guild model of using retreats and incubators to help creators develop stories that shape local culture.

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