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Digital platforms versus local proximity for community growth
Digital-first community building. Proponents of digital platforms argue that online groups provide the necessary infrastructure to scale connections quickly. Tony Teegarden reports that after launching a Skool group, he generated $100,000 in sales from…
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Digital-first community building. Proponents of digital platforms argue that online groups provide the necessary infrastructure to scale connections quickly. Tony Teegarden reports that after launching a Skool group, he generated $100,000 in sales from 80 members within 30 days by unifying them under a clear, one-year income mission (Set for Life in 6 Months by Travis Sago). Ivan Misner founded BNI in 1985 by organizing 20 entrepreneurs in an Arcadia coffee shop to exchange referrals, a model that now spans 10,000 groups and 76 countries with $20 billion in annual business transactions (Rony Meisler from Email do Rony).
The case for physical presence. Critics argue that true interdependence requires physical proximity to understand who people are. The Hey Neighbour! project in Vancouver demonstrates that simple, low-stakes physical infrastructure like lobby puzzle tables encourages residents to build relationships that prove vital during emergencies (LaVonne Ellis from The New Whole Earth Reference Library). Jack Moses, who hosted multiple retreats in Italy to share writing and philosophy, contends that leaders must take people to locations that had a profound impact on them to build genuine, high-stakes alignment (Jack Moses from Infinite Freedom).
These positions diverge on whether digital tools are a foundation or a distraction. While digital channels allow for rapid audience gathering, the evidence suggests that durable trust forms through shared, physical experiences and mutual, face-to-face service (Dr. Brianna J. Migliore from Dysregulation Nation, Living Your Wisdom).
- Doniel Sutton of Pinterest restricts in-person time to high-stakes moments like leadership transitions, using virtual tools for individual focus (Charter).
- Zohran Mamdani’s mayoral campaign organized soccer tournaments and scavenger hunts to ground political engagement in local, physical community activity (Dr. Brianna J. Migliore from Dysregulation Nation).
Try today · 30 min
Install a communal puzzle table or bulletin board in your building's lobby or a shared local space.
Ask the property manager for permission to place a small, shared activity in an underused common area.
You need
- A small table
- A communal puzzle or a corkboard with pushpins
Steps
- Identify a quiet, high-traffic common area in your building.
- Clear the space and set up the table or board.
- Place a sign inviting neighbors to contribute to the puzzle or post local notices.